Are you are back on the dating scene after many years and find the internet scene daunting?
You have finally plucked up the courage to try internet dating and friends say -‘You met where? Over the internet? ‘What a crazy thing to do’ or ‘You never know who is out there’.
What they probably don't know is that around 60% of all new relationships now start on the internet!
But being back on the dating scene can raise the fear factors of ‘I can’t do this’, or worse ‘what if he thinks I am silly’, or ‘what if I don’t know what to say’.
The next thing you know, you’ve ‘talked yourself’ out of a new opportunity. It seems scary but you already have your profile out there – so you are already doing it!
I felt those same fears and I can help you…
As one client said, ‘Di helped me establish my boundaries’ - ‘I felt so relaxed when I met him, it seemed easy’ and “I even enjoyed it’.
I work by first getting you to acknowledge that meeting first on the internet is OK!
This a new experience for you, so I use a series of exercises that explore and build your self confidence and your ability to present yourself naturally. And how to set your boundaries!
And I give you loads of practice!
I support this with positive feedback in a supportive, non- threatening, fun-filled way so you just can’t wait to come back next week for more.
This is your opportunity to re-discover and love who you are, and to be aware of what you will and won’t stand for.
We plan the initial chat, how much you will divulge, how long it should be before meeting, (let alone giving out your phone number or direct email address), establishing your expectations and reviewing some pitfalls for your safety.
Not every experience works out and that is Ok – using my ‘pick up for slip ups’ helps you and still grows your self confidence.
And you learn how to actually have fun along the way!
My website has testimonials from previous clients and I encourage you to see what they have said about working with me.
But, before starting I like to meet and have an informal, no-cost chat to start building the connection and trust that is so important for a successful coaching relationship.
If you would like to do this, please ring me or email me about when would be a good time to meet?
Contact Di on 0409 638 248
or email di@diriddell.com